"Welcome to the club that nobody wanted to belong to. But while we're here, we might as well learn, grow, and look out for each other."
Bryce Perry
This is your playbook. If you're reading this, you've been approved as a Journey Guide (JG), which means you've already proven something most people never will: that you can take the hardest chapter of your life and turn it into fuel for someone else's. That's not small. That's everything.
This manual is built from real-world mentoring frameworks, rewritten for how we actually do things at DLT. No fluff. No clinical detachment. Just the tools you need to show up, be real, and walk alongside another person living with Parkinson's (PwP).
Important: You are a peer, not a professional. We provide lived experience and community, never medical advice. Always direct your mentee to their healthcare team for clinical questions.
1. Your Role as a Journey Guide
You're not a therapist. You're not a doctor. You're someone who gets it because you've lived it.
A Journey Guide is a peer mentor inside The Club who walks alongside a PwP (or their Care Partner) through the early, messy, overwhelming stretch of a Parkinson's diagnosis. You bring what no textbook can: real experience, honest conversation, and the proof that life doesn't stop.
What You Actually Do
Listen first. Every PwP's journey is different. Your job isn't to prescribe. It's to be present.
Share what worked (and what didn't). Your lived experience is your credential.
Point them toward resources. DLT has built an entire ecosystem for this. Use it. (See Section 9.)
Check in consistently. Bi-weekly meetings over six months. That's the commitment.
Know your lane. If something feels clinical, emotional-crisis-level, or outside your scope, refer out. That's not failure. That's wisdom.
The Framework
Phase
Focus
Duration
Foundation
Build trust, assess needs, set expectations
Weeks 1–2
Education
PD basics, symptom management, building a care team
Weeks 3–6
Action
Exercise, nutrition, emotional resilience, social connection
Weeks 7–16
Independence
Long-term planning, advocacy, transition to self-management
Weeks 17–24
Tailoring to Their Needs
Before you launch into any curriculum, stop and assess:
What does this PwP already know about PD?
How do they learn best: conversation, reading, doing?
What's scaring them the most right now?
Are they solo, or do they have a Care Partner involved?
Every journey is unique. Your agendas are a guide, not a script.
2. The JG–PwP Relationship Structure
Establish the Foundation
Your first priority isn't information. It's trust.
Let them tell their story. Don't rush it.
Reassure them: they are not alone, and people live full, meaningful lives with PD.
Emphasize self-compassion. A diagnosis brings grief, confusion, and fear. All of that is normal.
Educate on PD: Their Way
Cover the essentials, but meet them where they are:
What PD is. The basics: dopamine, motor symptoms, non-motor symptoms. Keep it human, not clinical.
Every PwP is different. Symptoms, progression, and responses to treatment vary wildly. That's not scary. That's just real.
Early management matters. Exercise, medication (like levodopa), mental health support. The earlier they engage, the better.
Holistic approach. Diet, sleep, mindfulness, stress reduction. It all connects.
The support ecosystem. Family, friends, support groups, The Club, and now, you.
Build a Management Plan Together
Help them think about their healthcare team:
Movement Disorder Specialist (MDS) or neurologist, non-negotiable
Physiotherapist / occupational therapist
Speech-language pathologist
Dietitian
Mental health professional
Help them think about a wellness plan:
Regular physical activity tailored to them (yoga, tai chi, walking, Rock Steady Boxing, cycling)
Introduce neuroplasticity, the science that says exercise can actually slow progression
Before you meet your first PwP, you need to know how the matching system works inside the app. This section walks you through every step — from getting notified about a new match to marking your partnership as complete.
3.1 How You Get Notified
When a PwP selects you as their Journey Guide, three things happen:
You get an email. It includes the PwP's name, any message they wrote when requesting you, and a link to the request.
You get an in-app notification. Open The Club and check your notification bell.
A badge appears on your "My Members" tab. The number shows how many pending requests are waiting for you.
Don't let it sit. The sooner you respond, the better the experience for the PwP who's waiting on you.
3.2 Where to Find Your Matches
Everything related to your Journey Guide role lives in the Give Back section of The Club.
Go to Give Back → My Members. This is your home base. You'll see two sections:
Section
What's There
Match Requests
Incoming requests from PwPs who selected you. Shows a badge count if any are pending.
Active Matches
People you're currently matched with. Each one has a match card with status, actions, and notes.
Your "My Members" tab only appears once your profile is approved and active. If you don't see it, check that your profile status is set to active in Give Back.
3.3 Reviewing a Match Request
When you open a pending request, the request card shows:
Their name and avatar
When they requested you
Their message (if they wrote one — this tells you what they're looking for)
Before you decide, ask yourself:
Do I have capacity right now? (Check your max mentees setting in your profile.)
Does their situation feel like something I can help with?
Can I commit to bi-weekly meetings for up to 6 months?
3.4 Accepting or Declining
To Accept: Tap the Accept button on the request card.
The match becomes active immediately
The PwP receives an email letting them know you accepted
The admin team is notified
The match card moves to your Active Matches section
A 48-hour clock starts for you to make first contact
To Decline: Tap the Decline button.
The PwP is notified and placed back in the queue to be matched with another guide
This is not a failure. If the timing isn't right, or you don't feel like the best fit, it's better to be honest now than to overcommit later.
If you're unsure, reach out to your Program Leader (Brian Campkin) before responding. There's no pressure to say yes to every request.
3.5 Making First Contact (48-Hour Window)
Once you accept, you have 48 hours to make first contact. This is the most important moment — the PwP has been waiting, and your first message sets the tone for the whole relationship.
Where to reach out: Send them a Direct Message (DM) inside The Club. Go to your active match card and use the app's messaging. Keep it simple and warm:
"Hey [Name], I'm [Your Name] — your Journey Guide. Really glad we got connected. I'd love to set up a quick call this week so we can get to know each other. What works for you?"
Your match card shows your first contact status:
Badge
What It Means
First Contact Pending
You haven't marked first contact yet. The clock is ticking.
First Contact Made
You've reached out and marked it. You're on track.
First Contact Overdue
More than 48 hours have passed. A Program Leader will check in.
To mark first contact as made:
Go to Give Back → My Members → your active match card
Tap "Mark First Contact Made"
Add a brief note (optional but helpful): what you said, how they responded
3.6 Scheduling the Meet & Greet
After first contact, schedule your official Meet & Greet — your first real conversation.
Go to your active match card in Give Back → My Members
Tap "Schedule Meet & Greet"
Pick a date and time using the date/time selector
Add an optional note (e.g., "Video call — I'll send a Zoom link")
Save it
Both you and the PwP will see the scheduled date on the match card. To change it, tap "Update Meet & Greet".
Format options: Video call (recommended for first meeting), phone call, or in-person if local.
3.7 Your Match Card — What Everything Means
Once a match is active, your match card becomes your dashboard for that relationship. Here are the buttons:
Button
When to Use It
Mark First Contact Made
After your first DM or message. Do this within 48 hours.
Schedule Meet & Greet
Set the date/time for your first meeting. Changes to "Update" once scheduled.
Pause
Temporarily step back (vacation, health, personal). Match stays yours but flagged as paused.
Resume
Pick back up after a pause.
Complete
Partnership has run its course (typically after 24 weeks).
3.8 Match Status — What Each State Means
Status
What It Means
What to Do
Pending
Match just accepted, waiting for first contact
Send a DM within 48 hours
Active
You're meeting regularly
Keep showing up, log notes
Paused
Temporarily on hold
Let your PwP and Program Leader know
Completed
Partnership finished
Celebrate the journey
3.9 Managing Ongoing Matches
Schedule recurring meetings. Bi-weekly is the standard cadence.
Log check-in notes. After each meeting, leave a brief note on the match card.
Update your availability. Pause in your Give Back profile to stop new requests.
Communicate proactively. If you need to reschedule, let your PwP know early. Consistency builds trust. Ghosting kills it.
3.10 When a Match Isn't Working
Talk to your Program Leader first. Don't just disappear.
Be honest but kind. The program will handle the transition.
It's not personal. Not every pairing works. The goal is the best outcome for the PwP.
3.11 Quick Reference — The Full Match Lifecycle
PwP requests you as their guide
↓
📩 Email + in-app notification + badge on My Members
↓
Review request in Give Back → My Members
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✅ Accept → Match becomes ACTIVE | ❌ Decline → PwP re-queued
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Send DM within 48 hours → Mark First Contact Made
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Schedule Meet & Greet → Hold the meeting
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Bi-weekly meetings for up to 24 weeks
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Mark match as COMPLETE when ready
4. First Contact: Introductory Meeting
Duration
30 minutes
Format
Video call, phone, or in-person
Goal
Connect, listen, and set the tone for the partnership
This isn't a lecture. It's a handshake. You're two people meeting for the first time, and the only agenda that matters is making them feel heard.
1. Warm Welcome & Purpose (5 min)
Greet them warmly. Set a comfortable, safe tone.
Explain why you're here: mutual support, shared experience, real conversation.
Say it plainly: "Your Parkinson's journey is yours. I'm not here to tell you what to do. I'm here to walk with you."
2. Personal Introductions (10 min)
You go first. Share your story: diagnosis, challenges, what's helped. Keep it honest and human.
Then them. Invite them to share at whatever level they're comfortable.
Don't push. Some people aren't ready to open up in the first meeting. That's fine.
3. Explore Needs & Expectations (10 min)
Ask directly: "What do you hope to get from this?"
Offer tailored suggestions based on what you hear.
Provide reassurance: challenges are manageable with the right tools and support.
4. Wrap-Up & Next Steps (5 min)
Summarize what you discussed.
Share one or two resources they can explore before next time.
Set expectations: how often you'll meet, how they can reach you, what to expect.
End on a real note: "You're not alone in this. Keep showing up, keep being real, and keep doing life today."
5. Meeting a Newly Diagnosed PwP
Duration
~60 minutes (flexible)
Goal
Emotional support, foundational PD information, practical next steps, without overwhelming them
A newly diagnosed PwP is often in shock. They may be terrified, confused, grieving, or numb. Your job isn't to fix that. Your job is to sit in it with them and show them that the road ahead is livable.
1. Welcome & Introductions (10 min)
Introduce yourself and your connection to PD. Keep it personal.
Ask about their diagnosis journey: when, how, what symptoms, how they're feeling.
Acknowledge whatever emotions come up. There's no "right" way to feel.
2. Understanding PD (10 min)
PD affects every person differently. Say this twice.
Cover motor and non-motor symptoms: tremors, stiffness, fatigue, anxiety, sleep issues.
Clarify: PD is chronic but manageable. It's not a death sentence. It's a chapter.
Reinforce: "You are not alone."
3. Exercise & Staying Active (10 min)
This is the biggest lever they have. Make sure they hear it.
Exercise is the single best thing they can do to slow progression. Period.
Recommend starting points: walking, yoga, Rock Steady Boxing, stretching, cycling.
Eight meetings spanning approximately four months. Each builds on the last. Adapt as needed. Your PwP's journey drives the agenda, not the other way around.
Meeting 1: Building Trust & Understanding
Welcome & Icebreaker: Introduce yourself and your experience with PD. Be real.
Goal Setting: What does your PwP hope to get from this partnership? Write it down together.
Understanding PD: Share experiences, challenges, and what's helped. Listen more than you talk.
Takeaway: Ask them to identify 2–3 specific areas they want support with.
Meeting 2: Exploring Daily Challenges
Check-In: How have the last two weeks been? (Use Community Pulse language: good / manageable / rough / tough.)
Daily Routines: Strategies for managing symptoms and energy.
Emotional Support: Explore the emotional impact of PD. Don't rush past this.
Action Plan: One small, realistic adjustment to improve daily life.
Takeaway: Implement that one change and track how it goes.
Meeting 3: Physical Wellbeing
Check-In: Review progress. Celebrate any wins.
Exercise & Mobility: Specific exercises, programs. Rock Steady Boxing, yoga, tai chi, cycling. Exercise Guide →
Sleep & Nutrition: Rest challenges and dietary strategies.
Resource Sharing: DLT resources for physical wellbeing.
Takeaway: Try one new physical activity or dietary change.
Meeting 4: Emotional Resilience
Check-In: How are physical changes feeling? What about emotionally?
Stress Management: Identify triggers, talk through coping strategies.
Action Plan: Identify one group, event, or person to connect with.
Takeaway: Make that connection happen.
Meeting 6: Managing Fluctuations
Check-In: Reflect on social connection efforts.
"On-Off" Periods: Medication cycles and symptom fluctuations. Mention Off-State Mode in The Club.
Problem-Solving: Brainstorm strategies for handling unexpected changes.
Takeaway: Implement one new strategy for navigating fluctuations.
Meeting 7: Planning for the Future
Check-In: Assess overall progress. Revisit goals from Meeting 1.
Long-Term Coping: Tools for maintaining independence over time.
Care Planning: Future care, advance directives, healthcare communication. Care Partners Guide →
Action Plan: A forward-looking plan for the next 6–12 months.
Takeaway: Write down three things to prioritize going forward.
Meeting 8: Reflection & Closing
Check-In: Reflect on the entire journey together.
Achievements: Celebrate progress. Name specific wins, big and small.
Future Steps: How they'll continue using strategies and resources.
The Handoff: Stay active in The Club, explore Inner Circle.
Give Back: Invite them to consider becoming a Journey Guide through Give Back → Get Involved.
Closing: Mutual reflections. Gratitude. "Keep showing up, keep being real, and keep doing life today."
7. What a Completed Partnership Looks Like
A six-month JG partnership that's done right doesn't end with a finish line. It ends with a person who knows they can do this, and a guide who remembers why they started.
1. Clear Goals Were Set Early
At the start, you both agreed on what you were working toward: understanding symptoms, finding a healthcare team, building an exercise routine, coping with emotional weight, or connecting with community. Whatever it was, it was specific, and it was theirs.
2. Real Knowledge Was Shared
Your PwP now has a solid, practical understanding of PD, not from a textbook, but from someone who lives it: medication management, symptom strategies, how to build and work with a healthcare team, and where to find resources that are actually worth their time.
3. Emotional Growth Happened
They feel less alone. More empowered. They've had honest conversations about grief, fear, humor, and breakthroughs. They came out the other side with a sense of belonging.
4. Skills Were Developed
Your PwP can now advocate for themselves at appointments, ask the right questions, make informed treatment decisions, and navigate DLT resources and The Club independently.
5. Communication Was Consistent
Bi-weekly check-ins happened. They were meaningful, not performative. Discussions were tailored to what your PwP actually needed.
6. Real Changes Were Made
Established a regular exercise routine
Joined a support group, Club, or Circle in The Club
Created a personalized plan for managing stress, sleep, or nutrition
Built a "toolbox" of strategies for future challenges
7. You Grew Too
This isn't one-directional. As a JG, you've gained new perspectives, reinforced your own sense of purpose, and deepened your connection to the PD community.
8. They're Ready to Walk on Their Own
By the end, your PwP feels confident managing their condition and navigating their journey independently. The partnership may naturally conclude, or you may stay connected through The Club.
The bottom line: Both of you should walk away feeling enriched, supported, and proud of what you built together.
8. Your Secret Weapon: Lil Bryce
Lil Bryce is DLT's AI coach, built on Bryce Perry's voice, knowledge, and lived experience. It lives inside The Club and is available 24/7. Think of it as having Bryce in your back pocket.
As a Journey Guide, Lil Bryce is one of the most powerful tools you can point your PwP toward. Here's how to use it:
Understanding PD
Lil Bryce can explain PD in plain, human language: what it is, how dopamine works, what to expect early on. Point your PwP to Lil Bryce when they have questions between meetings. It won't replace you, but it fills the gaps.
Building a Positive Mindset
Lil Bryce shares real stories of people thriving with PD. Encourage your PwP to have honest conversations with Lil Bryce about fear, frustration, and hope. Pair with the DLT Podcast for ongoing inspiration.
Creating a Care Team
Lil Bryce can help your PwP understand what specialists they need and how to build a multidisciplinary team. Use it alongside the DLT Exchange to find providers.
Exercise as Medicine
Exercise is the single most effective tool against PD progression. Lil Bryce can recommend programs, explain the science, and help your PwP find what fits. Exercise Guide →
Symptom Management
Motor symptoms, non-motor symptoms, anxiety, fatigue. Lil Bryce covers them all with practical strategies. Encourage your PwP to ask Lil Bryce about specific challenges as they come up between meetings.
Nutrition & Lifestyle
Dietary guidance, sleep strategies, stress reduction. Lil Bryce can talk through all of it. Pair with DLT's Resource Hub for deeper dives.
Available 24/7
Your PwP won't always have a question during your bi-weekly meetings. That's the beauty of Lil Bryce. It's there at 2 AM when the anxiety hits, on a Sunday when they're spiraling, or right before a doctor's appointment when they need to organize their thoughts. Make sure your PwP knows it's there and how to use it.
9. DLT Resources & Quick Links
Your PwP has an entire ecosystem behind them. Use it.
Care PartnerPerson supporting a PwP (never "caregiver")
PathwaysProvider discovery tool in The Club
ExchangeResource/provider directory on dolifetoday.com
Lil BryceDLT's AI coach: Bryce Perry's voice & knowledge
Community PulseDaily mood check-in
Off-State ModeAccessibility mode during medication off-time
Give BackMentoring & volunteering section
CirclesPrivate, intimate support groups
MDSMovement Disorder Specialist
You didn't sign up for this because it's easy. You signed up because someone else is going through what you went through, and you remember what it felt like to be terrified, confused, and alone.
You are the proof that Parkinson's doesn't get the last word.
Show up. Be honest. Listen hard. Point them toward the resources. And when they're ready to walk on their own, let them go knowing they've got a community behind them that never quits.
Keep showing up, keep being real, and keep doing life today.